5 Lessons from 5 Amazing Friends
Whether you’re a teacher, a student, or a parent, you’d have to agree that any motivation that is given to you makes a load of difference on how you view your present circumstances. It helps you get up and get going.
This past week I had five friends who were a huge encouragement to me! They motivated me and pushed me to do something brand new. They motivated me to do my best and to keep on keeping on.
I’m going to take what they gave me and give you five simple tips on how to motivate your students. If they worked for me, they’ll surely work for your kiddos.
1. Praise Them
My beautiful (and crazy talented) friend Sarah did one simply impactful thing for me this week. What did she do? She complimented me!
Yep, that’s it. She shared a kind word or two with me and that was all it took to put a bit of pep in my step. And you know what? I needed it!
Your students need it too! They need to be complimented. They need to be praised for their good behavior and noticed when they’ve tried their best and gotten it right.
Praising a student can reinforce positive behavior, redirect them to make good decisions, and help them realize their accomplishments.
2. Remind Them
I was talking with my long-distance, goal getter, best friend Leanne. This phone call was particularly short—only seven minutes or so. It was during this time that she reminded me of so many things that God has done in my life.
She reminded me of how far God has brought me, how He has changed me as a person, and how He has used me in the ministry.
Honestly, as soon as we hung up the phone, I was motivated to do even more!!
You can have that same outstanding impact on your students.
You can be that teacher that reminds them how far they’ve come since the beginning of the year and of how much they’ve grown. When they see their progress it helps them know that they’re capable of changing for the better and that there are even more great days ahead.
3. Challenge Them
That’s right! How do you motivate your students? By challenging them to be better than they are right now.
One of my friends, Zoe, challenged me this past week. She simply asked me to share my work with those around me and to actually put myself out there. It was super scary at first but it was also a great motivator to improve.
This concept can be really easy to implement in your classroom. Giving your students a page that requires more critical thinking or assigning a group project that pushes them to work with others could be the exact thing that not only changes things up, but helps push them to take steps to improve.
4. Give to Them
This past week I was celebrating a good CT scan from my neurologist and, since my friend Hannah couldn’t be there with me to celebrate, she sent me a Starbucks gift card instead.
How thoughtful is that, right?! So sweet!
She thought of me and wanted to show me that she was happy for me and, because of that, she did something small, kind, and caring. She simply gave.
When we give to our students, it has that same refreshing effect.
Giving them a handwritten card or leaving a simple note on their desk can be a great motivator. It reminds them how much they’re loved and let’s them know that you’re on their team—celebrating and rooting for them with each little victory they make.
5. Invest in Time with Them
This tip came from my friendship with my fabulous partner in crime, Maddie. She’s one of the people in my life that I run to whenever I feel the need for some sound advice. She carefully listens and then (after telling me to calm down) rationalizes.
Do you know what she’s doing each time we have a conversation? She’s investing.
She’s investing her time and her talent. She’s not just, “having a conversation.” She’s giving of herself.
Our students need our investment in their lives as much as we need investment from others.
They need us to invest our time, our talents, and our hearts. They need our eyes when they’re showing us their glittery shoes and they need our ears when they’re talking about their playground adventures. They need us. They need all of us invested into all of them.
I’m so thankful for the five ladies mentioned and many others that I have yet to mention (some who are probably reading this right now). You all have taught me so much and invested so much into my life. I hope to keep passing it on to others. Thanks for helping me teach creativity!



